Lingerie...Love It or Leave It

     Ladies here's a question I put forth to you...Is lingerie a gift for you, a gift for him or a gift for you both?...Now I have heard different takes on this issue. Some will say a gift of lingerie shows that you still find that lady sexy, hot and she still can stir the fires. Others say women don't like the lingerie, it's a selfish gift bought by the man for the man, that he is dressing you up to fullfill a fantasy, that you alone can no longer excite him and he needs the window dressings to make it work. And yet there are those who will say its a gift that both of you can enjoy, it creates an intimacy and attraction that is naughty but nice for you both to enjoy in the privcy of your own bedroom.

     So the question pure and simple...Is lingerie a good or bad gift idea? How provocative do you go? What is sleazy? What is sexy?